"Your cute for a black girl" I get this very often and I get somewhat offended every time. The people who say it don’t understand why. But I feel like its a back handed compliment. I mean why add the black girl part? Are you saying black girls aren’t cute
And before anyone points out that I am not black but light skinned so i shouldn’t be whining. We come in all shades and whatever society says i still consider myself a black girl Maybe I’m just making a big deal out of nothing but I can’t help but feel a little hurt by it. My point is maybe he/she didn’t mean it that way but why couldn’t he/she say “Your cute” instead of “your cute for a black girl”